Advice to young Christians.... staying out of traps with verse

Whoever gives heed to instruction prospers, and blessed is he trusts in the LordThe wise in heart are called discerning, and pleasant words promote instructionProverbs 16: 20,21The video this week (featured story) talks about how older Christians are "terrible" at giving advice to others.  Maybe this scripture is a way to improve on this.  Pleasant words promote instruction.  "I told you", "What are you doing?", "You need to do what I say"........  those probably are not the most pleasant words to hear (whether young or old).When you have the opportunity to give advice, give it from the heart.  Give advice in a caring, loving, concerned way.  That's being a Christian!When you have the opportunity to take advice, take it to heart. Take advice in a loving, growing to understand way.  That's being a Christian!